Let us agree on few key things, if Madonna has taught us anything it is this, a good person with pure heart, would never go against his/her friend, would never go against his own given word, would stay true to oneself and his/her friends. 
Have you ever heard Madonna spreading lies and deceptions about other person? Has she ever publicly engaged in petty squabbles, name-callings, humiliation or derogative commentary? Even with people she is trying to avoid, she usually acts quite graciously. A good example would be that Cortney Love stunt at VMA’s back in 1995. Former Hole front-woman Courtney Love destroyed an interview the Queen of Pop, Madonna was giving to MTV’s Kurt Loder.
Why do you think she’s like that? I think it is clear that she is above all that petty nonsense. A true fan would see that, and act the same way. Sadly, we all are only human, and humans tend to make many mistakes, even same mistakes several times in a row. People aren’t perfect, a lot of us are flawed in many ways, we can’t expect the same treatment from all of the people. Sometimes they let us down, while others brighten up our day.
It is our responsibility to rise above it all, and become a better person. Learn from our mistakes. Love your fellowman, neighbour, friend (even virtual ones). Learn to forgive and to let go of the negativity. Show kindness, when someone is being petty, show strength when someone is putting you down, show wisdom, whenever someone is spreading lies.
Remember those Madonna words:
"We are responsible for our own fate, we reap what we sow, we get what we give."
"Haters who make up rumours and lies are not worth your tears."
“A lot of people are just really confused by me; they don’t know what to think of me, so they try to compartmentalize me or diminish me. Maybe they just feel unsafe. But any time you have an overtly emotional or irrational, negative reaction to something, you’re fearing something that it’s bringing up in you.”
“A lot of places I go are dangerous, like Tel Aviv or Rio, but that never stops me from going there and putting on a show. I have good security. I don’t worry about that.”
“As an artist myself, I know what it’s like to put your heart and soul into something. You can feel the presence of another person.”
“Be strong, believe in freedom and in God, love yourself, understand your sexuality, have a sense of humour, masturbate, don’t judge people by their religion, color or sexual habits, love life and your family.”

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This was a post announcing a giveaway on facebook.com/MadonnaRemixersUnited, we wanted to make our fans happy by making a special Christmas gift from Madonna Remixers United team. A lot of people responded to our post and we had two winners. Now this was a while ago, but we still remember those lucky ones. Here's what they had to say: 

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“Madonna taught me to be more open-minded, she taught me not to judge a book by its cover.
For long time I considered myself a mad Madonna fan and falling in love with her music and her artistry in early age has played a significant role in my character building. I was still a teenager when I was introduced to her music and I instantly felt a connection. Unwittingly I started acting like her, talking like her and I suppose I started seeing things the same way as her, meaning I had similar world views.
For context I must say that people back in those days were still reeling from the whole Erotica era debacle. They just didn't understand that this was so revolutionary. Now it's a norm. So a lot of people were saying bad things about Madonna, which made me more interested in her and defend her even more. I remember that this cased a lot of fights.
All of my friends new that I was a Madonna fan, and they told me that there's another boy, who's as crazy about Madonna as I am. But they told me that he was bad news, that I shouldn't approach him, talk to him or even pay attention. Naturally I did the exact opposite. He was not at all what rumors painted him to be. We became best friends, and he was my best man.
So don't be harsh to judge someone, love is all we need.” (Anthon Dimitrov)

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“EVERYONE WANTS TO BE MADONNA! 
Everything for me started by chance, my cousin came to my house (it was 1985) with a magazine (top20) with a rgazza and on the cover was Madonna, that stabbed a tambourine, my sister said to me  "cute, but who is it? 
I said, "I know who he is." (it was a lie) but from that moment my life was never the same. In those years they played The Virgin Tour on TV. I was so fascinated by the style from the voice, from the dances, but especially from the music. I was reflected in all those colors, from there it was a path faced together, Madonna managed and manages to capture in her lyrics my moods. I remember the difficult period, that I spent when I was targeted at school, I listened to Express Yourself in headphones to give me strength to face the day or even how many times I listened to Love Tried To Welcome Me because it was just my mood or now with the laughs where as if by magic. I ask myself, did she knew what's happening to me, Madonna was also able to make me understand, that there are no differences between people or in color of their skin, or in sex or religion, just by watching her and her movies. 
Either she's belittled or attacked or she's not recognized for her talent. I'm sick of it. She deserves respect!” (Ant Cantastorie)

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“In my hometown Madonna was a bad word. My fandom would be a constant controversy in my childhood and teen years. Madonna taught me about the world outside of my secluded existence in Idaho. I was raised in a conservative religious-primarily Caucasian community. I only saw a person of another race once or twice my entire childhood. My interest in Madonna introduced me to a world of beautiful people from all over the world.
Truth or Dare was my guide to coming to terms with my sexuality. I felt safe knowing my idol loved and supported members of the lgbtq community. Last but not least she taught me about ego and illusions. I learned that many things are just illusions that may derail our life and happiness. I am in control of my own happiness and I thank Madonna for her messages that helped her and I both find love and happiness.” (Bobby Harrison)

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We've read all of your comments, and we want to thank each and everyone, who found the time to share their stories, who read the long post, we thank everyone who loves what we are doing, and each and everyone who encourages us to continue and produce the best Madonna Remixes made by fans so that other fans can enjoy her music.
After reading your comments, we found that there are fans who were truly inspired by Madonna and what she stands for, they found strength, found courage, ignored rumours and lies, showed kindness and warmth, despite their own struggles. Because being a Madonna fan doesn't have to end on just blindly following what she does, what music or movies she releases, it doesn't have to end on collections of common interest.